4 Idiot Things Guys Do To Drive Their Girls Away

Most of the time when your girlfriend dumps you...it's not her, it's you. Guys, we're some of the dumbest oafs around when it comes to relationships, and we're always doing SOMETHING wrong. Girls may not be the easiest creatures to understand, and relationships with them can be a bit difficult to manage...but really if you can figure out your problems you can solve them.

So that's why I'm here, to list off the main stupid things we often do to anger our lovely, gentle little flowers and make them grow thorns. What's more, I'm going to tell you how to get through the stupid things we do, at least the ones I'm covering in this article. Here's a resource written for a man, by a man, to deal with women in relationships.

1) First main thing that girls really despise when men do is when they don't pay attention to them. This really drives a girl nutso, because it can feel like they require our every waking moment to be devoted to them and only them, or else we don't love them. Of course this assumption is completely false, but girls seem to need us to pay constant attention to them.

NOT paying constant attention to them makes them think we don't love them, but when we DO pay constant attention to them they start acting like we're freaks. There IS a happy medium somewhere in there, but the exact level varies for each girl. Best solution here is to simply listen to her and figure out what she specifically needs, attention-wise.

2) There's this concept that women have, called "emotional support." They need their guys to be "emotionally supportive" of them. Best as I can figure it, it's kinda related to item number 1 on this list, but a little more expansive. Girls need to feel like their guys really understand them, and can get to know them almost as well as they know themselves.

There are a few lucky guys out there who come by this naturally, and those are the guys who have "game." Women naturally love these fellas, because the boys naturally understand the women and what makes them happy. What to say, what to do...it varies from woman to woman, and only astute observation and attention paid to detail can make up for a lack of natural talent here.

3) Women really kinda hate it when guys cheat on them, even if some of these same girls would gladly cheat on their guys. Of course we all realize this is a no-no, and wouldn't be too happy if our girls cheated on us...but sometimes we either have a momentary lapse of stupidity, or we don't realize what exactly constitutes "cheating" in the female mind.

Forget that other women exist. From now on, all women other than your girlfriend should be seen like you see your mother. She's not a woman, right? She's your mother. You do not TALK to other women. You do not LOOK at other women. You do not THINK ABOUT other women. You do not FANTASIZE about other women. All of these things are considered cheating and will get you slaughtered by a mob of angry girls.

4) And of course, there's always going to be trouble at home. What I mean is, if you live with your girlfriend...there'll be issues about how you divide up housework and household responsibilities. Rarely does this in itself end a relationship, but refusing to take out the trash can be a breaking point. Do yourself a favor...do what she tells you. It's just easier that way.

So that's the main list of stupid things we guys do. You may be wondering about why this could really help you if you're already broken up, and that's a fair question. Fact is, not everyone who is broken up, STAYS broken up, and if you manage to get a second chance with her you do NOT want to make the same mistakes again. Also, addressing these potential problems can help you out a lot with any other women you end up dating in your life.

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