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Codependency, Addiction, and The Landmark Forum.

By: Lorelei F.

My personal term for people who love addicted people (or codependents) is Second hand Addicts. This is because, although they do not drink, drug, or otherwise mood alter, they are just as profoundly affected- and sometimes even sicker than the addict is.

In addition, I would go so far as to say that we addicts and codependents, only know two ways of living and the entire sphere of our existence lives in these 'polar opposite' ways of being. To clarify, Addicts and Second Hand Addicts either attack or defend, control or be controlled, manipulate or be manipulated, step-on or be stepped on. In short they are either the action- usually aggressive- or the reaction. Now this same phenomenon can be said to exist in all people to some extent, but with an addict (alcoholic) or codependent, action/reaction is about the only way we live. And I lump myself in both of these groups as a former codependent who has experienced the struggle with food addiction.

Now why do I say former codependent, and how could that be? Many of you therapists and 12-step program people will wonder about this term and think I am in denial to say it out loud. You are clear that 'once a codependent, always a codependent.' And truthfully I thought the same way previous to my taking of The Landmark Forum and other related courses. Previous to those courses, it was a long, hard struggle to erase my codependent tendencies and the struggle went on daily, weekly, monthly- despite the enormously beneficial presence of therapy and 12-step programs in my life. But I say former because I now live in a place where codependent/ addicted tendencies are virtually erased and do not show up in my life. And if once in a while some codependency creeps in, it comes and goes so quickly that the layman does not see it.

And you are doubly shocked because you know how hard you have worked to fight this elusive and killing trait of codependency in both the recovering addict and the people who love him or her

Now there is a very good reason why Landmark Education courses and The Landmark Forum have the ability to virtually erase codependent traits. And here is what it is. The tools in these courses cause people to complete their pasts so fully and so quickly, that you would almost believe that the person had never had that past. And we all know that the addict or codependent often has a sordid, dis-empowering past that is just waiting at any given moment to cause trouble in his or her life.

But that's exactly what the technology of Landmark Education does. To explain, I will delve a bit into my recent experiences. Many of you who read my blog will know that I recently faced a year long struggle creating finances and a 'day-job.' For nearly a year I had not a single interview nor offer. Then I 'put some past in the past Landmark course. As soon as I did that, I got three interviews in one week, and 2 in the next. I am now looking at several possible jobs to choose from in the next week or so.

Now the past that was in my way was a complete blind-spot to me and I could not see it- even in years of therapy- until I sat in that course at Landmark Education.

And that is what the Landmark Forum does. It turns on a dimly lit light-bulb in your brain.

Now I speak to everyone, but particularly to the therapists and addiction specialists when I repeat, I did not see any of this and I would not see any of this, no matter what you said to me, without the technology of The Landmark Forum. And this is why you want to get your people as long as they are healthy of mind, into the course called The Landmark Forum. And you also want to take the course yourself. The Landmark Forum is for everyone, since everyone has a past. It is particularly for you who work with addiction because you have to experience it to recommend it, and you can't in good conscience ignore this powerful tool for the people you help. So take The Landmark Forum, and send your people to it. Be sure, of course, that anyone you send is fit and healthy enough to accept the insights and memories he or she will encounter. Then go to my blog and let me know that you or someone else took The Landmark Forum. Even better yet, email me and give me the profound pleasure of signing you up for this powerful course myself, as it really makes my day to be involved as we all heal and grow... In fact, it's why I do what I do.

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For more about these and other tools to live a free, joy-filled life go to the blogs of well-known Second Hand Addictions Expert, Lorelei F at secondhandaddiction and at





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